The Do-Over

Today I made mistakes.

hurt someone’s feelings.
wasted time and money.
said something I shouldn’t have.
lost my temper.I was impatient. I gained a pound. I overslept. I wished someone ill. I treated someone unfairly. 

broke a promise.

I didn’t mean to. I wish I were perfect.

Thankfully,  I get to start over again tomorrow.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Write it on your heart
that every day is the best day in the year.
He is rich who owns the day, and no one owns the day
who allows it to be invaded with fret and anxiety.Finish every day and be done with it.
You have done what you could.
Some blunders and absurdities, no doubt crept in.
Forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a new day;
begin it well and serenely, with too high a spirit
to be cumbered with your old nonsense.This new day is too dear,
with its hopes and invitations,
to waste a moment on the yesterdays.”
― Ralph Waldo EmersonCollected Poems and Translations

mis·take

[mi-steyk]  Show IPA noun, verb, mis·took,

mis·tak·en, mis·tak·ing.
noun

1.

an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by
poor reasoning, carelessness,insufficient knowledge, etc.
2.

a misunderstanding or misconception.
verb (used with object)

3.

to regard or identify wrongly as something or someone else:
I mistook him for the mayor.
4.

to understand, interpret, or evaluate wrongly;
misunderstand; misinterpret.
verb (used without object)

5.

to be in error.

It’s so easy to make a mistake. If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not doing anything! You’re not trying anything new or taking any risks.

Humans make mistakes. I’m not saying that we shouldn’t try to be better, but there isn’t any value in beating yourself up for making a mistake. Just admit it, make amends and move on.

I use the “undo” button on my computer all the time. It’s not that way in real life. There is no “undo” button. You can’t un-say something or un-hurt someone. There is no do-over button in life, but as long as there is breath, there is a new day. Do the right thing and embrace the

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My blog is my therapeutic public journal where I make observations and attempt to figure out how life works. View all posts by Gypsy Sojourner

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